This one is easy peesy!!!! Here is what it is and why.
A Small Step That Changed Everything
One of the most positive changes I’ve made in my life has been creating my website—a decision that began as a simple outlet for my writing but has since transformed my life in profound ways. Initially, the site was a place to share how my disabilities affect my writing and to showcase my poems and stories. It also became a safe space where others could share their own work, anonymously or openly, and connect through shared experiences. What started as a small project quickly grew into something far greater—a platform for personal growth, societal advocacy, and deep healing.
Writing for Change: Exploring Broader Issues
Over time, my website evolved into a space for tackling complex and important topics that impact me and others. One issue that has resonated deeply is the erasure of marginalized voices in history, such as the Navajo code talkers. These brave individuals played a pivotal role in World War II by creating an unbreakable code that helped secure Allied victories, yet their contributions have often been overlooked or forgotten. Their story became especially significant in the context of political actions dismantling diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) efforts, which only further erase recognition for such heroes. Writing about them has been one of many ways my website has allowed me to engage with critical issues, amplify overlooked histories, and share them with others.
Another key topic has been the dangers of programs like AISH. While AISH is a lifeline for many, it comes with immense challenges that create precarious and even dangerous situations for those who rely on it. From inadequate support that barely allows for survival to systemic flaws that leave individuals vulnerable, these dangers have been a major source of stress in my own life. Writing about them has been empowering, giving me a way to advocate for change and bring attention to the realities faced by so many who live under the shadow of such programs.
Facing the Past: Healing Through Writing
Beyond societal issues, my website has become a deeply personal space that holds profound significance for my mental and emotional well-being. One of its most impactful sections is the “Personal Journey,” where I write about whatever is on my mind that day. Some entries are reflective, raw, or deeply introspective, while others may seem scattered or random to an outside observer. But no matter the focus, this section is always authentic and meaningful. It has been vital in helping me face my past, process difficult memories, and confront emotions that I wasn’t fully aware I carried.
Writing about my experiences, even the most painful ones, has been one of the most liberating parts of this journey. Putting difficult memories into words has given me clarity and peace, helping me let go of the weight they once held over me. It’s also taught me an invaluable lesson: forgiveness is for my sake, not anyone else’s. Through writing, I’ve found a way to forgive—not to absolve those who hurt me, but to release myself from the grip of those memories and reclaim my sense of freedom.
Personal Growth: Confidence, Connection, and Boundaries
My website has also played a transformative role in my personal growth. Through this journey, I’ve discovered strengths I didn’t know I had and begun addressing the lingering impacts of my past, piece by piece. It has been instrumental in rebuilding my confidence, self-respect, and self-esteem—all of which had been deeply eroded by years of societal stigma and personal challenges. Sharing my work publicly, even though it is under a pen name, has been an act of courage that has helped me recognize the value of my voice and story.
Another deeply meaningful aspect of this journey has been reconnecting with my Cree heritage. Learning more about my culture and embracing my identity have been empowering experiences, enriching my sense of self and pride. At the same time, I’ve learned the importance of boundaries—something I’ve struggled with in the past but have made significant progress on. Writing has equipped me with the tools to prioritize myself, navigate relationships with clarity and balance, and create healthier spaces for personal growth.
A Lifeline of Purpose and Connection
The impact my website has had on my mental health is immeasurable. At first, I didn’t fully realize how transformative it was, but people close to me—like my therapist, dietician, and a volunteer from the Red Cross Friendly Calls program—helped me see the difference. Writing every day has given me a sense of purpose and direction, especially during a time when I’ve struggled with being unable to work. Living on government disability programs like AISH comes with immense stigma and judgment, often making individuals feel like a drain on society. But through my website, I’ve been able to challenge these narratives—not just externally, but within myself. It may not fit the conventional mold of work, but it has given me a meaningful way to contribute to my community and reclaim my sense of worth.
Most importantly, creating this website has given me the courage to take my writing out of private notebooks and put it into the world. That step was daunting at first, but it has opened doors to freedom, connection, and purpose that I never thought I could have again. Publishing my thoughts, memories, and experiences has helped me connect with others and create a space where people can safely share their own stories. It has reminded me that I’m not alone and that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.
Conclusion: A Testament to Resilience and Storytelling
What began as a small project to share my writing has grown into a cornerstone of my life—a platform for self-expression, advocacy, and healing. My website isn’t just a collection of words—it’s a testament to resilience, self-discovery, and the transformative power of storytelling. It has helped me process my past, face my fears, and redefine my narrative. More than that, it has given me the courage to live with purpose and the freedom to be unapologetically myself.
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