So I’m doing another shift with my site. I know, shocking—me? Changing gears and diving headfirst into new rabbit holes? Never. But here we are, and here’s your update.

Things will still roll out with the usual unpredictability. You never really know what I’ll write about, and honestly… neither do I. But that’s the point, right? Chaos is the brand.

That said, Fridays are getting a twist. I’m opening the door to more adult-themed posts. Think heavier on the BDSM and kink side of things—topic that I have only written about once, but now I’m taking a leap in. As always, it’s me sharing my perspective and the tangents my AuDHD brain clings to like a gremlin on espresso.

I’ve always included trigger warnings, and that won’t change. But because this content isn’t everyone’s cup of spiked tea, these posts will be Friday-only, scheduled so I can write whenever inspiration strikes and still keep things considerate for those who want to avoid that content. I have also added a page and separate categories for these adult based topics so that they don’t go into the other areas of the site.

I can’t control search engines however I can do what I can here to make it so you can stay in your comfort zone and venture out when you want to. If you want to. I am big time about boundaries and self acceptance so I want to respect what I know can be a common boundary with people. I know not everyone will like this shift and that is ok. I made this site for what I do, what I write about and well dark fantasy romance is where my fictional writing goes, so it would show up here anyway eventually. I made this site to help those who are like me, looking in from the outside and feeling like they can’t be themselves because of society and it’s expectations for what is ‘normal’. I am not normal so my site isn’t normal and this is just one more difference I am going to own.

My site is built on transparency and safety. I use a pen name for protection, but I’ve always aimed to be real with you—maybe even more real because of it. That said, I’ve avoided this topic for a while because I wasn’t comfortable. Which is kind of ironic, right? Preaching acceptance and self-love, but hiding this big part of me? Nope. That’s not who I want to be.

So this is me, stepping into the discomfort and trusting that the people who’ve stuck with me—and those still to come—can handle the full, unfiltered version of me. I’m scared, but I’m doing it anyway. Because that’s what I do. And because I love every messy, curious, chaotic part of who I am.