Tag: ADHD
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Relearning ASL and Letting My Hands Do the Healing
Sign language returned like a lost part of me—calming, expressive, safe. Now I use my hands to say what my voice learned to suppress.
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My Messy Discovery of AuDHD Verbal Masking
One creator’s story unlocked my own: verbal masking, silent exhaustion, and decades of misunderstood expression. Turns out, I wasn’t dramatic—I was adapting.
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The Exhausting Truth Behind Verbal Masking
What if being talkative was just a clever disguise for burnout? Peek behind the mask of AuDHD and discover the silent cost of seeming verbal.
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Meltdowns in Kink: This Isn’t Just a Neurodivergent Thing—It’s a Human One
Meltdowns, those who are neurodiverse get a name for this when it in reality happens to many especially in play with kink. These are things that help me, and they are different depending on what is going on. This is why communication is so vital.
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Dracula Parrots Are They Real?
Dracula parrots, are they real or just the product of an over active imagination? They are actually indeed real creatures so I did some light digging into these fascinating avian creatures.
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Simple Joy and Life
Describe one simple thing you do that brings joy to your life. This one is pretty easy for me to describe. It is actually this site. I get to be me without apology and as I learn what masks I’ve worn I get to share that. My site is totally based on what chaos it…
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Acceptance for the First Time
What I look forward to is acceptance because of what it leads to. This is one of my heavier posts, I talk about how lack of acceptance has lead to abuse, mental health problems, people pleasing and the dangers there. I also talk about a group of people have shown me what acceptance really is.
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Transforming Doom Piles with New Tools
DOOM piles? That is a medical term for those piles that only I can make sense of? Ok, I had to learn more and now after several hours I am writing this and expanding on a tool I am going to try out. Right tool for the job right?
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Kink and Emotional Safety: Building Trust in Connections
Emotional safety is a bit different for me. Kink is an area that it is really important that this is understood and I explain why that is for me, hopefully this helps you understand one aspect of neurodivergence with communication in kink and how it actually helps.
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Masking and Language Chaos
So, I was proven wrong on something. It has shaken my world and it has to do with masking. A more common trait in AuDHD, not sure why. It is still new to doctors as AuDHD is only just getting recognized. My world is shaken to say the least.
Who am I? 