Tag: aftercare

• Why Aftercare is Essential for BDSM Relationships

  

  I touched on Safewords, Dom space and subspace last week. This week it is the other side of play where aftercare is needed. It may differ but both need this as well as Dom’s can drop just like subs.

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  July 25, 2025

  Adult Topics, kink

  aftercare, AuDHD, BDSM, chaos, connection, differences, Dom drop, Dom space, Dominate, Dopamine, kink, Life, love, Mental Health, RACK, SSC, sub drop, sub space, Submissive, writing

• Meltdowns in Kink: This Isn’t Just a Neurodivergent Thing—It’s a Human One

  

  Meltdowns, those who are neurodiverse get a name for this when it in reality happens to many especially in play with kink. These are things that help me, and they are different depending on what is going on. This is why communication is so vital.

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  July 11, 2025

  Adult Topics, kink

  acceptance, ADHD, aftercare, ASD, AuDHD, Autism, chaos, communication, human reaction, kink, Life, meltdown, Nerodiverse