Tag: Autism
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The Letter That Ends the Silence
What do you send when they’ve ignored every polite request, every reminder, every truth? This post delivers the final piece of the Frost Method trilogy: a direct, professional self-advocacy letter built for escalation. Ready to document your demands before silence turns suffocating? Here’s the template that speaks when they refuse to listen
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Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me
What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…
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Fraud, Fire, and Federal Law: Weapons of an Advocate
Just when sleep was seconds away, a rogue charge sparked an all-night battle. Why are you still being billed for a service you canceled—and couldn’t use to begin with? Join me as I unpack the fury, the facts, and the federal law that turns quiet frustration into unstoppable fire.
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I Speak Many Languages. Masking Follows Me in ALL of Them
I’m multilingual. But behind each language was a mask—until I found the one that didn’t come with trauma. Turns out, fluency isn’t freedom. Identity is.
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ASL Journey
I have mentioned I’m working on learning ASL. I thought it might be fun to share how I’m doing with this. There is also the disturbing thing I want to share with you. Did you know 90% of parents who have a deaf child do not bother to learn ASL? Talk about isolating to put…
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When Talking Takes Everything—And Silence Gives it Back
I spent years performing speech that drained me—now I’ve unmasked the truth. Talking isn’t connection for me—it’s exhaustion, confusion, and finally… freedom
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A Childhood of Words, a Lifetime of Silence
For years I thought my constant talking was personality—until I realized it was masking. Now I’m reclaiming silence, expression, and the truth I was never allowed to speak.
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Relearning ASL and Letting My Hands Do the Healing
Sign language returned like a lost part of me—calming, expressive, safe. Now I use my hands to say what my voice learned to suppress.
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Meltdowns in Kink: This Isn’t Just a Neurodivergent Thing—It’s a Human One
Meltdowns, those who are neurodiverse get a name for this when it in reality happens to many especially in play with kink. These are things that help me, and they are different depending on what is going on. This is why communication is so vital.
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Acceptance for the First Time
What I look forward to is acceptance because of what it leads to. This is one of my heavier posts, I talk about how lack of acceptance has lead to abuse, mental health problems, people pleasing and the dangers there. I also talk about a group of people have shown me what acceptance really is.
Who am I? 