Tag: communication
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Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me
What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…
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I Speak Many Languages. Masking Follows Me in ALL of Them
I’m multilingual. But behind each language was a mask—until I found the one that didn’t come with trauma. Turns out, fluency isn’t freedom. Identity is.
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ASL Journey
I have mentioned I’m working on learning ASL. I thought it might be fun to share how I’m doing with this. There is also the disturbing thing I want to share with you. Did you know 90% of parents who have a deaf child do not bother to learn ASL? Talk about isolating to put…
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When Talking Takes Everything—And Silence Gives it Back
I spent years performing speech that drained me—now I’ve unmasked the truth. Talking isn’t connection for me—it’s exhaustion, confusion, and finally… freedom
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Relearning ASL and Letting My Hands Do the Healing
Sign language returned like a lost part of me—calming, expressive, safe. Now I use my hands to say what my voice learned to suppress.
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The Exhausting Truth Behind Verbal Masking
What if being talkative was just a clever disguise for burnout? Peek behind the mask of AuDHD and discover the silent cost of seeming verbal.
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Meltdowns in Kink: This Isn’t Just a Neurodivergent Thing—It’s a Human One
Meltdowns, those who are neurodiverse get a name for this when it in reality happens to many especially in play with kink. These are things that help me, and they are different depending on what is going on. This is why communication is so vital.
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Kink and Emotional Safety: Building Trust in Connections
Emotional safety is a bit different for me. Kink is an area that it is really important that this is understood and I explain why that is for me, hopefully this helps you understand one aspect of neurodivergence with communication in kink and how it actually helps.
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The Importance of Honesty in Kink Relationships
I have been told by some I overshare. It is who I am, I am not my diagnosis especially when it comes to Kink. I dig deep, I know my stuff, and my communication style helps there if you look past the surface.
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Understanding Rocky Mountain Wolves and Their Social Dynamics
So I was right and I have dived into the rabbit hole of wolves. Hope you enjoy learning how they communicate and how things work socially for them. Who know what the next post might be, maybe wolves in the artic, or maybe why I want to use them in my future books, or could…
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