Tag: Dopamine
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The word no and random thoughts.
I spent last night chasing a single question: what does “no” look like in every language whose word for “no” starts with N, in standard romanization, and when the writing system isn’t Latin, how does it appear in its original script? With only four hours of sleep last night—and maybe twelve combined over the two…
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Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me
What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…
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Why Aftercare is Essential for BDSM Relationships
I touched on Safewords, Dom space and subspace last week. This week it is the other side of play where aftercare is needed. It may differ but both need this as well as Dom’s can drop just like subs.
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Navigating the Chaos of Digital Validation
Social media fuels our dopamine cravings, transforming validation into an addictive pursuit. Yet, its psychological toll leads to self-doubt and chaos, prompting reflections on moderation and self-worth.
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Why I Wait to Meet: The Neurodivergent Perspective
My way of navigating meeting new people. I am neurodivergent to say the least and that means my approach is different. This is my way and the why of it. This is written in a kink perspective but applies in all areas of meeting new people.
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Navigating Relationships and Dopamine in AuDHD
Dopamine, AuDHD, ASD, ADHD… how does this impact relationships and a few other things? Let’s just say the impact is impressive there yet easily navigated and adjusted for if a person is willing that is.
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