Tag: identity

• Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me

  

  What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  August 1, 2025

  Adult Topics, kink

  Abuse, ADHD, ASD, AuDHD, Autism, BDSM, boundaries, calm, catharsis, chaos, choice, communication, connection, Consent Culture, Coping mechanism, cptsd, cutting, damage, dealbreaker, Dominate, Dopamine, emotional release, endorphins, healing, honesty, identity, info dump, intimacy, kink, kinksters, Life, Mental Health, neurochemical, neurodivergent, Pain, peace, punishment, RACK, reenacting, responsibility, rewriting, rules, sacred, Safewords, self harm, silence, SSC, structure, Submissive, Submissive Voice, survive, survivor story, Switch, trauma, trauma recovery, triggered, trust, truth, Vetting, weakness, why, writing

• Making Love Loud Without the Labels

  

  What if your deepest relationships didn’t need a script? What if chaos was compassionate? Let go of the labels and find out what connection feels like without a rulebook.

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  July 26, 2025

  AuDHD, chaos, My Personal Journey, Random Information, Random life topics

  chaos, connection, freedom, friendship, health, identity, Instagram actually helped, instagram strikes again, intimacy, Life, love, Mental Health, no labels, nontraditional love, queerplatonic, relationship anarchy

• The Things I Never Say Out Loud

  

  Mental health struggles don’t announce themselves. They sit in the silence, in the weight of unspoken words, in the quiet ache of loneliness and doubt. If you’ve felt it, know this—you are not the burden. The failure to understand it is. And that is not yours to carry.

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  May 2, 2025

  My Personal Journey

  depression, exhaustion, health, identity, Life, loneliness, Masking, medical bias, Mental Health, resignation, self-worth, touch hunger