Tag: Life
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Understanding Loss: A Raw Perspective on Suicide
I found this post a few months back and have chosen to share it at the start of suicide prevention month. Always remember there is help should you need it. Just reach out, you are never alone.
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The Letter That Ends the Silence
What do you send when they’ve ignored every polite request, every reminder, every truth? This post delivers the final piece of the Frost Method trilogy: a direct, professional self-advocacy letter built for escalation. Ready to document your demands before silence turns suffocating? Here’s the template that speaks when they refuse to listen
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Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me
What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…
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Fraud, Fire, and Federal Law: Weapons of an Advocate
Just when sleep was seconds away, a rogue charge sparked an all-night battle. Why are you still being billed for a service you canceled—and couldn’t use to begin with? Join me as I unpack the fury, the facts, and the federal law that turns quiet frustration into unstoppable fire.
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Fighting for Answers: My Ongoing Battle with Suspected POTS, EDS, and Hypermobility (Part 2)
How do you stay proactive when advocating for yourself? Join me as I navigate the ongoing battle with suspected POTS, EDS, and hypermobility.
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Fighting for Answers: My Ongoing Battle with Suspected POTS, EDS, and Hypermobility (Part 1)
Ever wondered what happens when your advocacy efforts hit a wall? Discover the challenges and triumphs in my journey with suspected POTS, EDS, and hypermobility.
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Making Love Loud Without the Labels
What if your deepest relationships didn’t need a script? What if chaos was compassionate? Let go of the labels and find out what connection feels like without a rulebook.
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Why Aftercare is Essential for BDSM Relationships
I touched on Safewords, Dom space and subspace last week. This week it is the other side of play where aftercare is needed. It may differ but both need this as well as Dom’s can drop just like subs.
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I Speak Many Languages. Masking Follows Me in ALL of Them
I’m multilingual. But behind each language was a mask—until I found the one that didn’t come with trauma. Turns out, fluency isn’t freedom. Identity is.
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ASL Journey
I have mentioned I’m working on learning ASL. I thought it might be fun to share how I’m doing with this. There is also the disturbing thing I want to share with you. Did you know 90% of parents who have a deaf child do not bother to learn ASL? Talk about isolating to put…
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