Tag: love
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Why I’m Ditching Mass Emails for Social Media Updates
So, instead of email for notifications of new posts since I have them go up on social media at the same time I decided to go this route and decided to be a smart ass about how I told you all…
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Simple Joy and Life
Describe one simple thing you do that brings joy to your life. This one is pretty easy for me to describe. It is actually this site. I get to be me without apology and as I learn what masks I’ve worn I get to share that. My site is totally based on what chaos it…
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Acceptance for the First Time
What I look forward to is acceptance because of what it leads to. This is one of my heavier posts, I talk about how lack of acceptance has lead to abuse, mental health problems, people pleasing and the dangers there. I also talk about a group of people have shown me what acceptance really is.
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Navigating the Chaos of Digital Validation
Social media fuels our dopamine cravings, transforming validation into an addictive pursuit. Yet, its psychological toll leads to self-doubt and chaos, prompting reflections on moderation and self-worth.
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Little Cousin, Digital Crush and Blocked
Young teen, digital crush, blocked, will always be dramatic and educational. Seems sometimes this can happen to adults to. Maybe it’s the dopamine.
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Kink and Emotional Safety: Building Trust in Connections
Emotional safety is a bit different for me. Kink is an area that it is really important that this is understood and I explain why that is for me, hopefully this helps you understand one aspect of neurodivergence with communication in kink and how it actually helps.
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A Life Without Love???
A life without love? I can’t imagine this. The way the brain functions can be chaos and not always in a good way. This is one of those not good things in my opinion and is terrifying. I held my service dog a bit closer today with this discovery.
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Why Do We Forget When We Cross a Doorway?
Did you know walking into a room and forgetting what you went there first actually has a science to it? No, me neither. Now I do, I introduce the doorway effect.
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A Personal Journey: Regulation with Kink
This is to give you my perspective with the things I have learned. I do try to vet things however I am human and make mistakes to. I want to educate and make all parts of life more accepting and I believe that is done through education.
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Why I Wait to Meet: The Neurodivergent Perspective
My way of navigating meeting new people. I am neurodivergent to say the least and that means my approach is different. This is my way and the why of it. This is written in a kink perspective but applies in all areas of meeting new people.
Who am I? 