Tag: relationships
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ASL Journey
I have mentioned I’m working on learning ASL. I thought it might be fun to share how I’m doing with this. There is also the disturbing thing I want to share with you. Did you know 90% of parents who have a deaf child do not bother to learn ASL? Talk about isolating to put…
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When Talking Takes Everything—And Silence Gives it Back
I spent years performing speech that drained me—now I’ve unmasked the truth. Talking isn’t connection for me—it’s exhaustion, confusion, and finally… freedom
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Why Dominants Must Use Safe Words
The other day I ran across something rather shocking. “Dom’s don’t need a safe word”. This covers why they do in the broader sense and it touches on other safety aspects.
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Navigating Relationships and Dopamine in AuDHD
Dopamine, AuDHD, ASD, ADHD… how does this impact relationships and a few other things? Let’s just say the impact is impressive there yet easily navigated and adjusted for if a person is willing that is.
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Friendship Exposes the Danger of a Predator
I trusted a friend with my struggles, seeking connection and understanding. Instead, I uncovered manipulation, dismissal, and danger—the predator hiding behind the mask of friendship. This is a story of betrayal, broken boundaries, and survival—a cautionary tale about friendship turned harmful.
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From Shadows to Self-Respect
There was a choice I didn’t make—a moment I let slip through my fingers. I’ve replayed it in my mind a thousand times, wondering what would have happened if I’d dared to act. Would everything have changed? Or would I?
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Mindful Moments: How Journaling Reduces Stress
The author reflects on their transformative journey with journaling, highlighting its power as a tool for self-expression and healing. Past emotional abuse, particularly from a parent who invaded their privacy, shaped their view of journaling as unsafe. Now embracing this practice, they find clarity, connection, and a path towards understanding their emotions and experiences recognizing…
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Unmasking Carefully: Navigating Trust and Vulnerability in Autism
The journey of self-discovery post-autism diagnosis involves uncovering realizations and navigating masking. This process can be challenging, requiring emotional support from qualified therapists. Recognizing differences in processing information, particularly in social interactions and sensory experiences, is essential. Embracing these discoveries facilitates personal acceptance and fosters healthier relationships built on trust and communication.
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The Importance of Doing What is Right for You
Prioritizing self-care is essential for mental health and emotional well-being. Whether it’s setting boundaries, leaving a toxic job, or nurturing positive relationships, making yourself a priority leads to a balanced, fulfilling life. Learn how to embrace self-respect and create meaningful connections that enrich your creativity and overall happiness.
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Snowstorms and Reflections: Assumptions, Life, and Apologies
Reflections inspired by snowstorms and the lessons of patience, assumptions, and accountability. Explore life’s challenges through the lens of humility, respect, and personal growth.
Who am I? 