Tag: trust
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Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me
What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…
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I Speak Many Languages. Masking Follows Me in ALL of Them
I’m multilingual. But behind each language was a mask—until I found the one that didn’t come with trauma. Turns out, fluency isn’t freedom. Identity is.
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When Talking Takes Everything—And Silence Gives it Back
I spent years performing speech that drained me—now I’ve unmasked the truth. Talking isn’t connection for me—it’s exhaustion, confusion, and finally… freedom
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Acceptance for the First Time
What I look forward to is acceptance because of what it leads to. This is one of my heavier posts, I talk about how lack of acceptance has lead to abuse, mental health problems, people pleasing and the dangers there. I also talk about a group of people have shown me what acceptance really is.
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Kink and Emotional Safety: Building Trust in Connections
Emotional safety is a bit different for me. Kink is an area that it is really important that this is understood and I explain why that is for me, hopefully this helps you understand one aspect of neurodivergence with communication in kink and how it actually helps.
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Trust and Anticipation: The Seeds of Confidence and Hope
What do trust, anticipation, and crows with “Wanted” posters have in common? More than you’d think! Dive into the unseen emotional heroes that quietly shape our world—one delicate thread, one spark of excitement at a time. 🐦✨
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Unlocking the Emotional Spectrum: What Are the Primary Emotions?
Emotions can feel as chaotic as a Rubik’s Cube or a Picasso painting, but there’s a method to the madness. Dive into the world of primary emotions—joy, sadness, anger, trust, and more—and learn how understanding these emotional building blocks can help untangle the chaos of everyday feelings. Ready for an emotional adventure?
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Friendship Exposes the Danger of a Predator
I trusted a friend with my struggles, seeking connection and understanding. Instead, I uncovered manipulation, dismissal, and danger—the predator hiding behind the mask of friendship. This is a story of betrayal, broken boundaries, and survival—a cautionary tale about friendship turned harmful.
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Unmasking Carefully: Navigating Trust and Vulnerability in Autism
The journey of self-discovery post-autism diagnosis involves uncovering realizations and navigating masking. This process can be challenging, requiring emotional support from qualified therapists. Recognizing differences in processing information, particularly in social interactions and sensory experiences, is essential. Embracing these discoveries facilitates personal acceptance and fosters healthier relationships built on trust and communication.
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Snowstorms and Reflections: Assumptions, Life, and Apologies
Reflections inspired by snowstorms and the lessons of patience, assumptions, and accountability. Explore life’s challenges through the lens of humility, respect, and personal growth.
Who am I? 