Tag: self harm

• Ropes, Recovery, BDSM and Me

  

  What if the thing that quieted your mind wasn’t therapy or sleep—but the strike of a flogger, the structure of a scene, and the rules of kink? I don’t play for thrill—I play to breathe. BDSM gave me control, clarity, and quiet where trauma lived loud. This post shares why kink holds my healing, my…

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  August 1, 2025

  Adult Topics, kink

  Abuse, ADHD, ASD, AuDHD, Autism, BDSM, boundaries, calm, catharsis, chaos, choice, communication, connection, Consent Culture, Coping mechanism, cptsd, cutting, damage, dealbreaker, Dominate, Dopamine, emotional release, endorphins, healing, honesty, identity, info dump, intimacy, kink, kinksters, Life, Mental Health, neurochemical, neurodivergent, Pain, peace, punishment, RACK, reenacting, responsibility, rewriting, rules, sacred, Safewords, self harm, silence, SSC, structure, Submissive, Submissive Voice, survive, survivor story, Switch, trauma, trauma recovery, triggered, trust, truth, Vetting, weakness, why, writing

• Finding Stability Through Kink and Chaos

  

  This post took a fair bit of encouragement from my pack. It is not easy to speak of something that is controversial however I will not lie about who I am, this is me staying true to the promise of being transparent.

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  June 6, 2025

  Adult Topics, kink

  AuDHD, chaos, controversy, health, improvement, kink, Life, lifestyle, love, Mental Health, peace, respect, self harm, sensory input

• Whispers of the Void

  

  Shadows stir in the silence, whispering truths long buried. The weight of stillness presses in, holding back something untamed, something waiting. A ghost of the past rises, uninvited yet familiar, pressing against the walls of a mind that resists and a heart that aches. The void listens. It never forgets.

  ❄️Siearra Frost❄️

  May 24, 2025

  My Personal Journey, Poetry

  anxiety, asking, chaos, finding strength in vulnerability, Life, Mental Health, Poetry, raw, self harm, writing